Self-Care
Primer for Disaster Helpers
© 2005 Babette Rothschild, MSW, LCSW
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** This primer was created for ALL those helping survivors of the
recent hurricanes and other natural and terrorist disasters. Included
are mental health professionals, medical professionals, and all rescue
and recovery workers. Please feel free to copy and distribute this information,
including forwarding it electronically, to anyone you think might find
it of use, also those helping in other disaster situations. There are
several points covered below, do not expect all of them to apply to
you. Please take what is useful for you and disregard what is not. **
Contents:
1) Preventing and Alleviating Compassion Fatigue
2) Preventing and Alleviating Vicarious Trauma
1)
PREVENTING AND ALLEVIATING COMPASSION FATIGUE
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First and foremost, you MUST take care of yourselves as much as possible.
Get adequate sleep
Eat regular meals
Take breaks
Get exercise: run, walk, lift weights
Talk with family and friends often
Remember, if you don't take care of your own basic needs, you will not
be able to care of others in the long run. If you burnout, who will
take your place? Of course in some situations this will be more possible
than in others, but you must do the best you can!
- Of
course in a crisis, many of you are working 7 days a week. However,
as soon as possible reduce work week to 4-5 days. What you are doing
is so demanding and exhausting, you absolutely need time to rest and
take care of basic things.
- Carry
your resources with you in your mind, and with pictures or small objects
that remind you of them. Create comforting images of favorite people,
places, and activities. Take mini-breaks frequently to call up these
images in as much detail as possible. You need to remember you have
a life and pleasures separate from the distressing (albeit valuable)
work you are doing.
- Accentuate
the positive. Rather than focusing most of your thoughts on the tragedy
at hand, spend blocks of time thinking about the good you and the other
helpers are doing. Pay attention to how many lives you are helping and
saving more than how many were lost or destroyed.
2)
PREVENTING AND ALLEVIATING VICARIOUS TRAUMATIZATION
When
a helper "catches" the trauma of those being helped, vicarious
trauma can develop. There are some simple things you can reduce your risk
and possibly prevent this altogether.
- Remember
that you are not a victim, you are a helper. That means you have strength
and resources available to use to assist others who do not have those
abilities right now.
- Some
of you will be feeling "survivor guilt" that you have not
suffered as much as those you are assisting. It is critical to remember
that if you had, you would not be in a position to help! So actually,
it is fantastic that you are not a victim of this tragedy, that makes
it possible for you to intervene and help those who are.
- When
hearing survivor stories, or when reflecting on your work, it is common
to consciously or unconsciously create visual, or auditory images of
what has happened to the victims, or to try to feel what it was like.
This can actually be very harmful to you. Such imagery is a major factor
in vicarious trauma because it makes you feel like a victim and/or eye-witness.
Where possible, avoid the creation of such images and states. Instead,
create other images-neutral or pleasant-to keep up your mood and strength.
- If
you find that visual and/or auditory images are inevitable, you can
learn to control them. Try putting the visual image on a screen and
the auditory ones on a tape player in your mind. Then practice manipulating
the controls. For visual images, change the size and distance of the
screen. Slow down the action and speed it up. Change the color mix to
black and white or sepia, etc. For auditory images, speed it up and
slow it down, change the pitch, add in other sounds that might not belong,
if there are speakers, change their voices. The idea is for you to learn
that these are 100% your images and you can control them rather than
feeling victimized by them.
- As
much as possible, avoid over-identifying with the people you are assisting.
Internal language like "That could have been me." "What
if that happened to my child (parent, sister, etc.)?" "How
could I...if..." Etc. will all make your job harder. Remember,
the advantage you have as a helper right now is that it did NOT happen
to you. Because of that you have resources to help. Over identification
could risk sapping those resources.
** Any of you who continue to have difficulty with compassion fatigue
or vicarious trauma are welcome to contact me by email or by phone. I
will try to do what I can to help or refer you to other resources. **
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Babette Rothschild, MSW, LCSW
PO Box 241778, Los Angeles
California 90024, USA
Tel: (+1) 310 281 9646
Email: babette@trauma.cc
Website: http://www.trauma.cc
Author:
· The Body Remembers: The Psychophysiology of Trauma and Trauma
Treatment
· The Body Remembers CASEBOOK: Unifying Methods and Models in the
Treatment of Trauma and PTSD
· Help for the Helper:
The Psychophysiology of Compassion Fatigue and Vicarious Trauma
(All published by WW Norton)
http://www.tlcinstitute.org
This information is made available courtesy of The National Institute
for Trauma and Loss in Children (TLC), a non-profit 501(c)3 program
of Children's Home of Detroit (CHD). If you have questions that you
would like to ask our TLC Certified Trauma Specialist on staff, or would
like a recommendation for a TLC Certified Trauma Specialist in your
area, please call TLC toll-free at 877-306-5256 or email us at steele@tlcinst.org
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