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Posted
9/30/05
Greetings from
Monroe, Louisiana from Judi Speir-Crawford, Ann Arbor Mich. and Maureen
Barber, Monroe, LA. We've been very busy using our training and
the material from TLC to work with both children and adult survivors
and volunteer helpers. We've trained teachers of 3 Catholic
elementary and secondary schools that have a combination of over 300
evacuee children. We also have trained volunteers at a Church
of Christ, which included a principal and teachers of a large Church
of Christ school as well as a local private school in the area.
We've worked with 4th, 5th, & 6th graders with Brave Bart
and they all loved it. On Monday we are scheduled to do a staff
debriefing for a school faculty. And now we are ready to branch
out with people in campgrounds; city schools; and possibly in FEMA and
Red Cross shelters. We have people who have attended our trainings
who are trying to pave the way to help us gain access to these facilities
and want to practice training with us. Thank you, Bill and TLC
for our training and materials to make all of this possible in these
desperate times.
Judi
Speir-Crawford, Ann Arbor Michigan and Maureen Barber, Monroe, Louisiana
Posted
9/27/05
We have placed
12 students from New Orleans in our middle school, 6,7, & 8th grades.
We have met in debriefing group and also worked with individuals. The
families have appreciated (TLC) materials sent home with the students.
Joella
Chew, School Counselor, Coppell ISD, Coppell, Texas
Posted
9/21/05
Hi
TLC...from your biggest fans in Frisco, Texas! YES...I SAID WE KNOW
WE ARE YOUR BIGGEST FANS! That being said...when the dust settles down
a bit, I want to share with you all we are accomplishing with the 220
children "gently placed" in our district due to Katrina...we
are using EVERY bit of our materials from TLC with 8 of us TLC trained
over the past 2 years...myself 6 years!
Also, of the 7...three are LPC! We are using your materials in a unique
way. Using What Color Is Your Hurt? We are having FIVE schools
at a time, bused to a central campus of THREE schools where TLC trained
specialists are breaking into small groups for our program. Then, they
are bused back to there home campus for lunch! 15 SCHOOLS, 8 SESSIONS
for 8 consecutive days with Sat & Sun off. We have also completed
a dinner parent educational meeting where we presented Trauma Responses
in Children, What Parents Can Do...Q & A and outreach with
sign up to begin adult support groups. We also have completed our first
group of 13 Elementary students in What Color... as a trial
run. Middle & High School groups as well. DO NOT KNOW what we would
have done with out your training. If you can get me about 3-6 more Brave
Bart Books...I would appreciate it... You are a BLESSING!
Patti Kubanet, Frisco ISD, Frisco, Texas
Posted
9/19/05
Just to let you
know. Here in Broward County, Florida (Ft. Lauderdale area) the Red
Cross has processsed over 1000 families who have fled the Gulf Coast
area. I have also assisted with Hurricane Recovery operations for those
affected by the storm when it came through our County. Asuncion Kahn
(also TLC trained) and myself have been assisting at the service center
by providing mental health counseling to clients, Red Cross workers
and Emergency Responders.We are also connecting with the Broward County
School system, where we are employed in our day jobs, to assist Guidance
Counselors and teachers whose schools are receiving the children of
these families. We really have appreciated the great info placed on
the TLC website related to discussing the storm, etc. with students
in the classroom. THANKS!! We will bring you up to date later when we
have a little more time to write.
Patricia Bledsoe, Broward County, Florida
Posted
9/19/05
Thanks for (sending)
your (email) message and your interest in helping. We're operating special
needs shelters for the city and have about 300 +/- evacuees now; plus,
there are several thousand still in the larger city shelters. Many people
have already left or are making plans, others may be here for quite
some time. It's difficult to say at this point what the need will be
over the next 2 weeks. I've been surprised to find that so far the majority
of folks in our shelters are much more concerned about the immediate
physical and social needs such as connecting with family, getting the
FEMA and Red Cross assistance money, medical, etc, and not so much with
trauma debriefing. I've never been involved with a disaster of this
magnitude, but people are telling me this is fairly normal... and maybe
that debriefing need is just around the corner. Anyway, if you are available
and want to come down, I'm sure that you could be helpful. Most of the
kids are in school during the day, but would probably enjoy and benefit
from some debriefing work, as would the adults. This must sound non-commital,
and I really don't mean to hedge; it's just hard to knowwhat the population
and need will be like two weeks out, and I know it is a large commitment
of time and finances for you. All that being said, if you are interested,
we'd love to have you! What do you think, based on your past experiences?
Thank you also for your kind words of concern and support. Best regards.
Richard,
Baptist Child and Family Services, San Antonio, Texas
Posted
9/12/05
Thanks for all of
the info on your website. I am hopeful that my supervisor with the London
District Catholic School Baord will allow me to go to San Antonio if
they are still looking for volunteers for up to a two-week period of
time. I don't know if there is any other way we can help but if there
is please know that we hopefully could do whatever is necessary and
your Canadian friends are thinking about you and the gulf area at this
very difficult time. Not only have I benefitted from your wonderful
training, but I also am a registered art therapist (with the AATA) and
would welcome the opportunity to help.
Barb Dorrington, London District Catholic
School, London, Ontario, Canada
Posted
9/12/05
I am deploying to
Bay Saint Louis, Mississippi, tomorrow for 10 days. My assignment is
the EOC, setting up a childrens center, and supporting the superintendent.
My TLC training and the BRAVE BART books will be utilizied.
Barb Alexander, Benito Middle School, Tampa,
Florida
Posted
9/11/05
I want to commend
you on the wonderful response and usefullness of the website info. I
am currently volunteering as Director of Client Care at Abigayle Ministries,
which provides temporary housing, training in child birth, parenting,
and life skills for single pregnant women and their children and also
support gorups and material assistance to women in the community. We
are in the process of getting sponsorship for some evacuees, as we should
be able to house a few. We have learned of 350 evacuees in Battle Creek,
so we will be visiting there this week to see who we can bring in. I
am very grateful for the training I have received from TLC and also
for the currently posted info and links. Blessings to you and all who
are involved in this effort.
Mary Cassady, Ph.D., Abigayle Ministries,
Clinton Township, Michigan
Posted 9/9/05
I appreciate you keeping
us in the loop and updating your information to fit the situation. I
would give anything to be able to go to he distressed area to work with
the evacuees but am working full time. Georgia is setting up aid
centers so perhaps that is an option for me. Thanks for all you do to
keep us informed and for all of the support you are giving to those in
need.
Carol Smith, Vickery Creek Middle School, Cumming,
Georgia
Posted
9/9/05
Are there any other
TLC people in Arizona? We have 1200 displaced people here. I would be
willing to spearhead efforts here to work with these people.
Kathy Mohr-Almeida, Mesa, Arizona
Posted
9/9/05
FYI: I
called and they have been getting quite a few phone calls from the TLC
members. Right now they have a call out for housing for the volunteers
and as soon as they get that set up they will be contacting us. We
have to get there on our own and there is no specific time line right
now regarding on how long we will be needed. They are in definite
need of "counselors" according the the person I spoke with.
Phyllis Copioli, Chippewa Valley Schools,
Sterling Heights, Michigan
Posted
9/9/05
Thank you for all of the work you are doing. I wish I could do
more. Unfortunately, I am pregnant and on bed rest right now!
Nonetheless, I am proud to be affiliated with TLC. Keep up the
good work.
Gina Cristiano, MSW, LISW, Dayton, Ohio
Posted
9/9/05
I've
appreciated the updates and will work on some funding for Brave
Bart books. As of today I've been approved as a Mental Health worker
with ARC and expect to be called for shelter work in the near future.
Hearing about all the children it's been really frustrating that there
really don't seem to be any services focused on their needs, but at
least the mental health workers have a degree of flexibility that includes
children, so I decided this is the best I can do at this time. I will
take Brave Bart with me and as much paper and colored pencils
as I can carry! One good thing is the large number of people throughout
the country who have had TLC training in the past few years. We're certainly
going to use it!
Carol Fowler, Kid's Center, Jackson, Michigan
Posted
9/9/05
Thank
you all for the wonderful and comprehensive material you have posted
to help those who are facing the effects of Hurricane Katrina. It is
also helpful for those of us who are providing support to them. Here
in Tallahassee, Florida, The Red Cross is opening additional shelters
for evacuees, and the schools are making way for the children/teens
from affected areas. Our
program provides school and community based grief support to children,
teens, and their caregivers. We had e-mailed some information about
how to help children following Katrina to all the guidance counselors
in our county, but we plan on e-mailing it to outlying counties as well.
I will certainly add TLC to the resource list! Again, thank you
for the valuable information.
Pam
Mezzina, Senior Counselor, Caring Tree Program of Big Bend Hospice,
Tallahassee, FL
Posted
9/9/05
Our team from Baptist Child and Family Services has been deep in the
work in San Antonio. Our agency was asked by the state to provide
the special needs shelters. We have serviced approx. 500 people
who are frail, elderly, newborn, or mentally, physically or emotionally
challenged. One day you and I can visit about both Sri Lanka and
Katrina! My best to TLC and thanks for the training! We're still
learning a lot from this experience!
Marla Rushing, Director, Baptist Child and Family Services, San Antonio,
Texas
Posted
9/9/05
Thank
you for the valuable information!
Charlene Emanuel, School Counselor, Emile Elementary, Bastrop, Texas
Posted
9/9/05
Email
sent to Student Services Staff, Pasco, Florida
"Many of you are familiar with the National Institute for Trauma
and Loss in Children (TLC) and their Director, Bill Steele. Bill
has conducted several trauma and grief trainings for Pasco's Student
Services staff in recent years and several of our Crisis Intervention
Team (CIT) members have completed the Center's Trauma Certification
Training. Many of the resources/books used by Pasco's CIT were developed
by TLC, including Brave Bart (children dealing w/ a traumatic
event), Shadow Moves (children dealing w/ a traumatic move)
and Trauma Response Teams in the Schools. TLC has always been
quick and generous in their response to our nation's crises. Following
9/11, TLC offered free resources and books to many school districts.
Again, with Hurricane Katrina they are offering information and resources
to families and schools. Please access their (website) for a wealth
of good materials--including sample classroom presentations, letter
to parents, understanding the Cajun Culture--to assist students, families
and schools to respond to and recover from Hurricane Katrina."
Cathy Rapp,
District School Board of Pasco County, Land O' Lakes, Florida
Posted
9/9/05
Thank
you for the info! we are expecting any where between 200 - 400 refugees
at our school in the future. I will contact you if we need help.
P. Janet
Pertera, L.L.Hotchkiss Elementary, Dallas Texas
Posted
9/9/05
Dear
Dr. Steele, Thank you for the information. I will share it with my counselors.
By Friday we had over 50 students enrolled from the hurricane along
the Gulf. We expect more on Tuesday. Thanks.
Judy Picot, Killeen ISD, Kileen, Texas
Posted
9/9/05
I
am so grateful for all the materials I have collected over the years
through TLC. We in Frisco ISD have a few counselors trained through
TLC & all your materials are making my job at coordinating interventions
so much easier! I am so thankful for all your effort in keeping our
skills "second to none"! The materials & web sight are
awesome. Frisco, Texas has many victims transferring here & I am
happy to have the tools necessary for an appropriate response. Blessings,
Patti Kubanet, RN CNS, Certified Trauma &
Loss Specialist, Frisco ISD Hope Rising Program
Posted
9/8/05
I was looking at your
website regarding different cultures using the trauma intervention process
- about modifying it - up here we are working on adjusting the intervention
specific to our Tribal population. Two things come to mind:
1. If people are naturally oral story
tellers (like up here) then it's just a matter of getting them talking
because they usually address the intervention questions anyway - like
you have taught those times to keep yourself out of it. Also if I have
initially gave them the questions or suggestions of what they could
incorporate in the story i.e. that I want to feel what they saw, smelled,
heard etc., then let them tell it, my experience has been I haven't
had to intervene much... mostly because up here, and especially with
an elder it's impolite to interrupt them anyway when they are telling
a story or talking - even to intervene.
2. Another thing to find out is what a
persons traditions/ beliefs etc. Regarding death and when bad things
happen. Up here when someone dies - a traditional funeral involves 4
days - with a sacred fire, praying, feasts, and the family stays with
the body for those days. Very simplified- the belief is that your helping
the spirit of the person crossover to the spirit world (and with most
Native cultures the spirit world is with us not far away in Heaven)...
so all that one does is important for them to have a safe and good journey.
Up here it is important to know that for a period of time you aren't
suppose to say the persons name.
Also up here some more traditional people won't talk about bad, evil
once the sunsets. And for the trauma intervention - we are figuring
out a way to use the sacred fire because I have a family that wants
to take out the parts of their trauma workbook that has the awful things
that happened and "give them up to the Creator by putting those
pages in a sacred fire."
So it's great that you put that stuff
in about culture because the basics of all the trauma information is
universal ... it's just allowing people to adjust it to their ways to
be most helpful. I will let you know once we have our ideas about modifications
(Native style) to the trauma intervention workbooks/process in a more
coherent form to run by you. Thanks again for all your hard work.
Kathleen
Witkowsk, TLC Consultant Supervisor, Sault St. Marie, Michigan

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