HELPING VOLUNTEERS: TRAUMA AND DISASTER
Making Sense of Unexpected Responses
From Those You are Trying to Help
William Steele, MSW, PsyD
When
volunteers are unprepared for what they may encounter they become far
more vulnerable to a wide range of unwanted reactions.
- Victims
don’t always “thank-you” or may not be able to say
“thank-you” while in shock even weeks later.
- Victims
are not always able to help other victims even though it appears they
are capable of doing so. When one is in the most intense survival
mode, their systems may become rigid and unable to reach out to others.
- If
you have ever been to a Senior Fair you know to step back. Some seniors
will have no boundaries, step in front of you; make a direct line
to whatever table or booth is giving free handouts. They just grab
everything in sight. It is not about what they can or cannot use.
Hoarding is a way of hanging onto the last remnant of life. This is
the behavior of people who have lost a great deal and are terrified
of being abandoned and alone in death.
- In
crisis victims do and say things they would not normally say or do.
- In
the state of trauma or terror, which can be defined as feeling totally
powerless and unsafe, victims may become more aggressive, even assaultive.
This can be a basic survival response to what or who is perceived
to be a threat to their life.
- In
large-scale disasters, victims will include every day normal functioning
individuals, whose responses no longer look normal.
- In
large-scale disasters, victims will include those who have been homeless
for sometime and who may return to shelters in the evening intoxicated
and/or exhibit varied psychiatric conditions.
- In
a large-scale disaster, victims will also include the psychiatric
population who may not have had their medication for days and are
beginning to deteriorate.
- Victims
can bring much personal history to shelters that is activated when
under extreme stress.
- Behaviors,
influenced by culture, can certainly be misleading to those unfamiliar
with those cultural practices of victims.
It
is important for volunteers to remain non-judgmental. However, this
can be difficult when not adequately prepared for the wide range of
responses that can be experienced as shocking, ungrateful and even intimidating.
Unprepared
and untrained volunteers can be idealistic in their expectations as
to how they will be appreciated. When victims don’t show their
gratitude for water, when they say things like “Don’t you
have any pizza?” as a whole array of other food choices are presented
to them; when they laugh at volunteers’ questions or requests
for help; those idealistic expectations can quickly shatter. It may
leave volunteers themselves in shock, disillusioned, even angry and
in some cases, precipitate that volunteer’s own history with trauma.
Most
volunteers expect organizers to be organized. In reality, disaster relief
is often initially not about “day to day” but “hour
to hour”. Hurricane Katrina, certainly by its magnitude, revealed
difficulties with systematic organizations overall, even from shelter
to shelter. Volunteers put into situations where there is confusion,
constant changes, and many unknowns, can experience intense anxiety
as well as frustration. They can sometimes feel like victims themselves
– somewhat helpless, powerless to do what they believe they ought
to be doing or could be doing if coordinators had their “act”
together. Unprepared volunteers are more vulnerable to vicarious traumatization
themselves not just because of what they may be exposed to in devastated
areas but also because of what they are also exposed to by the system
response.
The
sheer number of displaced Katrina evacuees required the Red Cross to
eliminate many of its requirements for volunteers, including training,
so these volunteers were less prepared. Churches have provided thousands
of homes for families, yet many of the volunteer families offering their
homes were not prepared for the mental health issues evacuees brought
with them.
In
the months that follow I hope we do not forget to spend time with volunteers
whose expectations were shattered, whose own histories were activated
by what they faced, who try to understand why victims responded the
way they did, who may be questioning whether they want to be available
the next time. And, I do hope that organizers better appreciate the
need to educate volunteers as to the differences between grief and trauma,
the changes people undergo when in crisis, and the wide range of behaviors
and reactions they can expect from victims as well as themselves.
Please
feel free to download any of the information on our website regarding
trauma that may be helpful to volunteers (www.tlcinstitute.org).
Please
call us (toll-free 1-[877] 306-5256) should you have questions or would
like us to present to your group. Hopefully this brief article alone
will be helpful.
http://www.tlcinstitute.org
This information is made available courtesy of The National Institute
for Trauma and Loss in Children (TLC), a non-profit 501(c)3 program
of Children's Home of Detroit (CHD). If you have questions that you
would like to ask our TLC Certified Trauma Specialist on staff, or would
like a recommendation for a TLC Certified Trauma Specialist in your
area, please call TLC toll-free at 877-306-5256 or email us at steele@tlcinst.org
