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ARTICLE
This article is reprinted from TLC's Journal, TRAUMA
AND LOSS: Research and Interventions, Volume 1, Number 2, 2001.
Review: A Trauma Resource
Bibliography
by Deanne Ginns-Gruenberg, MA, BSN, LPC,
RPT-S
Deanne Ginns-Gruenberg is a TLC special presenter
and a registered play therapist with over 25 years experience. She is
also owner of the Self-Esteem Bookshop in Royal Oak, Michigan.
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In the days following the horrific events of September 11th, trauma specialists
scrambled to find resources to help young clients. There were numerous
requests for resources to manage the nightmares, decrease stress levels,
gather ideas for altruistic activities, address bigotry and hatred as
well as develop group activities to enable people to come together. The
need to know what to say, how to reach out to others, and how to assist
families and clients were also common concerns.
It is widely known that children need information to counterbalance the
misinformation that is readily accessible. The task at hand becomes providing
that information in a developmentally age-appropriate manner. We have
also learned that in times of crisis and grief, attention spans are limited
and so the amount of time one can focus on the words of the books must
be considered. A tip might be less is more. The following
is a list of trauma-related resources that may be of help to trauma specialists,
parents, teens, and children:
- The National Institute for Trauma and Loss in Children (TLC) has created
an extensive library of practical hands-on tools. These trauma resources
are jewels that offer detailed guidance for helping professionals to
use in these challenging times. What Parents Need to Know: Help for
Parents of Grieving & Traumatized Children by William Steele
is an excellent place to start for caregivers and parents. It has an
easy to read format explaining trauma, expected behaviors, and some
beginning steps toward healing those who hurt. Two other booklets, You
are Not Alone (for children ages 6 to 12) and A Trauma is Like
No Other Experience (for teens) are directed to these traumatized
children.
- Parents often are concerned that if they say too much too soon they
will frighten their children. My experience has been that you will soon
know, by the signs children provide, when it is over their heads. Some
helpful books that assist parents with helpful dialogues include
How to Talk to Your Kids About Really Important Things and How
to Talk to Teens About Really Important Things both by Charles E.
Schaefer, PhD and Theresa DeGeronimo, M.Ed., Children and Trauma
by Cynthia Monohon, and Parenting through Crisis by Barbara Coloroso.
Books by respected grief authors Alan Wolfelt and Earl Grollman provide
some concrete answers which parents may be seeking as well as Keys
to Parenting Your Anxious Child by Katharina Manassis, M.D., F.R.C.P.
will be helpful.
- Parents and children can benefit from good books that help children
learn to identify and express their feelings. There are so many outstanding
books on this subject. A few of my favorites are Just Because I Am
and the Leaders Guide that accompanies this title. Double
Dip Feelings gives children permission to have more than one feeling
at the same time. More pertinent than ever, my favorite book for traumatized
children is Brave Bart (see review in V. 1, #1, Trauma and
Loss: Research and Interventions). While some children relate well
to people-characters, I frequently note that animal characters are especially
appealing and engaging to children, especially in these difficult situations.
Children identify with the animal characters in this story and are encouraged
to believe that they too can surmount the issues which confront them.
- For classroom use after the terrorist attacks on September 11th, I
suggest Sailing Through the Storm by Edie Julik. A sailboat on
the water of life is happily sailing along in calm, blue water.
Suddenly there is a big boom. Someone has been hurt, and everything
changes. Violence has happened to you, or to someone you
know, or even someone you have never met. So begins this interactive
book that serves as a springboard to initiate discussion and expressive
activities. The metaphor of sailboats on the water of life is an empowering
tool that offers a sense of hope. Speaking directly to the children,
it captures a wide range of emotions which include feeling like your
little sailboat is going to sink; and moves in a positive
direction encouraging children to express those scary feelings. Sailing
Through the Storm affirms that within each of us lies the power
to make a difference and sail towards the ocean of peace.
- When Something Terrible Happens by Marge Heegard, is a venue
for children to express their fears and hopes. Simple explanations are
on each page, and the children are invited to draw and discuss their
work. To help children cope with nightmares, two of my personal favorites
are Jessica & the Wolf and Annie Stories. Jessica
models different coping techniques including reworking her nightmare
- giving it a healthier ending. Annie Stories is a collection
of stories on numerous topics in which the author actually provides
footnotes for the caregiver. These explain the rationale for specific
strategies which characters model.
- Additionally, soothing audiotapes or cassettes played at bedtime can
help decrease anxiety and stress levels. Books like Starbright, Earthlight,
and Moonlight provide calming guided imagery and affirmations
for elementary age children. Roxanne Daleo has created some beautiful
stories on audio to help children unwind. Ready Set Relax by
Jeffrey Allen and Roger Klein, a favorite of many play therapists and
caregivers, is an outstanding tool with calming scripts for the active
imagination. These are followed by specific activities and questions
for discussion. The scripts, put to music, are available both in a CD
and cassette format called Ready Set Release, and are valuable
for all ages.
- The importance of expressive therapies cannot be understated in its
contribution towards the healing process. Understanding Childrens
Drawings by Cathy Malchiodi is an essential tool; providing practical
guidelines for art therapy including helpful questions to explore with
children. Clinicians will find the suggestions in another book on art
intervention, also by Malchiodi, applicable to all children affected
by our recent tragedy. Children in Distress: A Guide for Screening
Childrens Art by Linda Peterson and M. Hardin provides assistance
to therapists in identifying signs of childhood trauma. Those working
with adolescents will find Contemporary Art Therapy with Adolescents
by Shirley Riley a welcome companion to assist this population in communicating
their concerns.
- Equally important is play therapy and there are numerous books that
can help trauma specialists get started. In a new book, School-Based
Play Therapy, edited by Athena Drewes, Lois Carey, and Charles Schaefer,
Athena has written an excellent, relevant chapter, Developmental
Considerations in Play & Play Therapy with Traumatized Children.
In Treating Traumatized Children Beverly James shares clinical
situations and specific interventions. Any of Eliana Gils books
or chapters on the subject of abused and/or neglected children and adolescents
can be adapted when working with traumatized youth and families.
- Trauma specialists often need resources to help children make sense
of what happened. Sandtrays offers a soothing medium for children of
all ages to begin the healing process. A great place to start is with
Sandtray: A Practical Manual by Linda Homeyer and Daniel Sweeney;
this medium facilitates children as they move towards feelings of safety
and empowerment. Sandplay Therapy with Children and Families
by Lois Carey will be of value to those working with families. In Sandplay
Therapy by Barbara Boik and E. Anna Goodwin, the attention given
to multicultural aspects takes on added value and importance, at this
time.
- Why do people hate other people? This question has been asked with
increasing frequency and begs to be answered. Why is Everybody Always
Picking on Us, assists us to look at the roots of prejudice, and
will be a useful tool for educators and clinicians. Children of Color
by Jewelle Gibbs suggests important considerations when working with
clients of different nationalities or races.
- What will be most valuable to those of us working with traumatized
children? There are so many available outstanding materials; this list
is far from exclusive. Two outstanding resources that will provide a
helpful overview for us are Too Scared to Cry by Lenore Terr,
MD and Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman. Both clearly articulate
the impact of trauma.
- Practical resources to help the helper are also needed. What Color
is Your Hurt? for preschool children, I Feel Better Now! Curriculum,
for ages 6-12, and Trauma Intervention Kit are available from
The National Institute for Trauma and Loss to guide the helper in working
with children in groups. Children begin the healing process as they
express their thoughts, concerns, hopes, and dreams in clearly defined
age-appropriate activities. A new manual, Adults and Parents in Trauma,
recognizes the need for parental involvement and offers specific therapeutic
interventions to facilitate healing. Trauma Debriefing for Schools
and Agencies is an essential tool for every debriefer. I also suggest
Three Dimensional Grief: Model for Facilitating Grief Groups for
Inner City Children by Dottie Ward Wimmer, Carol Napoli, and Sarah
Outman Brophy. Kathryn Brohl offers helpful ideas in Working with
Traumatized Children: Handbook for Healing. The detailed case studies
in Helping Bereaved Children: A Handbook for Practitioners, edited
by Nancy Boyd Webb, also offers valuable guidelines and considerations
for treatment.
Of course, the most important resource that I did not mention are the
children themselves. Books are important, but more important is that we
truly listen to and partner the children with whom we are working , allowing
them guide us in their journey. In so doing, we may create the best healing
tool yet.
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