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Child's Reactions / Child's Needs

Reactions NEEDS

Anxiety

Security

Guilt

 

Reassurance
Terror/ Fearfulness

Adult protection, acknowledgement, patience, simplification of tasks

 

Constanly worried that something else will happen (hypervigilance)

 

Structure, consistency, facts, information, simplification of tasks
Helplessness

Physical nurturing, simplification of tasks and expectations

 

Chaotic or out of control feelings and emotions

Calm, peaceful environment

 

Fatigue

Sleep, predictability, calmness

 

Repetitive telling of the story or reenactment in play of incident

Someone to listen

 

Fear of being alone (difficulty leaving parent or letting parent leave)

Safety and conviction that self and others will be safe

 

Confusion, forgetfulness, inability to concentrate

Simplification of tasks, repetition, structure, patience. Teachers and counselors may need to be made aware of this inability to concentrate.

 

Worry about something else happening to him/herself

Reassurance, sense of safety

 

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This website is a service of The National Institute for Trauma and Loss in Children (TLC), a program of Starr Commonwealth. All information listed in this site is meant to be used as a guide only and not as a substitute for professional counseling. If you have questions that you would like to ask our TLC Certified Trauma Specialist on staff, or would like a recommendation for a TLC Certified Trauma Specialist in your area please call TLC toll-free at 877-306-5256 or email steele@tlcinst.org