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William Steele, MSW, PsyD, is the Founder and Director of The
National Institute for Trauma and Loss in Children. Dr. Steele
is a consultant to schools and agencies across the country and
a frequently requested presenter in the area of children and trauma.
Tricia Trimble, MEd, LPC, CTS, a TLC Certified School Specialist
and Consultant, is a Crisis Counselor in the Amarillo Intermediate
School District in Amarillo, Texas. She also has a private practice
and works closely with local law enforment on crisis situations.
She conducts trauma training in the Panhandle region for school
and agency personnel.
At times, traumatic
incidents occur that involve a large number of people who could
benefit from debriefing in small groups of eight to ten participants,
but situations only allow for meeting in larger numbers of twenty
to thirty plus participants at one time. Obviously, the debriefing
process must be adjusted to accommodate the larger numbers.
Trauma specialists may only be provided with one opportunity to
meet with this large group. It is our belief that you cannot properly
debrief more than eight
people in a group setting, as it takes close to two hours for all participants
to have the opportunity to tell their stories. Also, we do not encourage debriefing
to go past two hours because of the risk of participants becoming overwhelmed
and too exhausted to protect their emotional “self.” So, what can
trauma specialists do?
The National Institute has learned over the past eleven years that some intervention
is better than no intervention for trauma victims. We have, in the past, often
been asked to debrief groups of twenty or more professionals. We will provide
two examples and discuss how they were approached. One group (Group A) consisted
of teachers, social workers, counselors, and administrators in a school setting
combined with mental health professionals called in to assist school personnel.
The other group (Group B) was made up of law enforcement personnel. Both situations
involved a shooting death; the one of a student inside the school, the other
of an officer in the community.
Most vs. Least Exposed
When first called, we were informed that there were approximately twenty to thirty
participants who wanted us to meet with them, including those who were at the
scene during the traumatic incident and therefore, most exposed at the visual
and the sensory level. Attempts to persuade (educate) the administrators to allow
us to debrief no more than eight participants in multiple sessions, conducted
simultaneously, failed. Efforts to initially meet with the most exposed separately,
apart from the others also failed. This necessitated the “rescripting” of
the debriefing process, especially the opening statements.
Structuring Opening Statements
In the larger format, it is very important to immediately readjust expectations
of the group as to what can be accomplished in a large group. It is also important
to say that additional help may be needed because the group size prohibits you
from addressing all the questions used in a formal debriefing.
After introducing yourselves to the group, briefly mention that experience has
taught you that debriefing can be helpful and can accelerate the healing process.
Follow this brief opening with the following structuring statements:
“Debriefing is usually conducted with no more that eight persons in a group
to give each person an opportunity to tell their complete story, their thoughts,
the ways the situation has impacted them. This is not possible with your group
so we have selected just a few questions of the many we normally ask. Because
this will be an abbreviated debriefing, some of you may want an additional session
to give yourselves the opportunity to get relief from some of the issues we may
not be able to address today.
“There are, as you know, those of you here today who were on the scene
when _______ happened or there immediately after, and those who were there much
later and therefore, not exposed to the same elements. Those of you who were
there please feel free not to answer our questions. It is perfectly okay, especially
in a large group like this. Not everyone will have a lot to say or much to say
today, but listening to your colleagues and peers will be helpful to you.”
Order
Group A (teachers, social workers, counselors, and administrators along with
mental health professionals) was directed to raise their hands if they wished
to respond to the question posed above. A final check was made before going on
to the next question to see if anyone wished to add anything. A visual scan should
be made from one end of the semi circle to the other end in order to make sure
that all participants have acknowledged the questions. In Group B, the law enforcement
group, those on the scene were asked to respond first followed by other participants
in a sequential order that was then continued. Both methods worked well. Ms.
Trimble, one of the debriefers of the law enforcement group, was familiar with
the team members, but the only member not in law enforcement. Only three of the
twenty some participants in Group A were familiar to Mr. Steele. Confidentiality
and other ground rules were established at this point.
Gaining Credibility
Ms. Trimble was introduced by an officer in Group B who was on the debriefing
team. Because other team members had not previously conducted a debriefing, they
asked Ms. Trimble to start the process. Knowing that law enforcement and other “first
responders” often feel out of control and helpless, especially when one
of their own has died, she took a few minutes to address how these reactions
could leave them not wanting to talk. She also acknowledged that they might be
cautious about what they did say, because this process was new to them and, because
she herself was not in law enforcement. She then indicated that the process is
generally very helpful, and that they would benefit in some way. Following this
she thanked them for allowing her “ in” to help.
Mr. Steele initiated similar comments with Group A and especially directed his
attention to the concern that school personnel might have with responding in
a group with non-school personnel. The same applied to non-school personnel.
He invited participants to call him anytime should there be things they would
like to talk or ask about following the debriefing.
Debriefers of both groups found that participants were appreciative of their
honesty, sensitivity to these issues, and directness. Many reported afterward
that they needed to hear these comments from the debriefers in order to feel
comfortable with participating.
Questions
Both group debriefings took place approximately one week after the incident,
after the victim’s funeral. Debriefers of both groups began by first asking
who the participants were and their relationship to the victim. This gave each
participant the opportunity to respond regardless of the nature of their exposure. “Where
were you when it happened, or when you first found out, and what did you do?” was
the next question. This led to participants identifying different details related
to varied aspects of the events that followed that day and that week. The one
question not asked in both groups was, “What do you remember seeing and
hearing?” There was concern that if those who were witnesses went into
too much detail as to what they saw (the sensory), that it might make it more
difficult for the non-witnesses to process their existing reactions.
The next question asked was, “What one thought stands out the most for
you since this happened?” In both cases participants talked about their
own reactions to different parts of all that happened. The issues of “should
haves” or “I could haves” at the funeral and, even having to
be in the group, were some of the issues that emerged. These questions, in both
situations, set the stage for those who were initially reluctant to participate
(reported by participants before leaving). It made it far easier for them to
respond later.
When asked, “What was the worst part?” both group participants identified
events following the incident such as the funeral, the media issues, community
members, parent reactions; specific factors reminding them of what happened and
difficulties they experienced in trying to help the most exposed. Personal reactions
as well as system issues were discussed.
When asked, “Of all the thoughts or reactions you had, what one reaction
or thought surprised you the most?” participants detailed more personal
reactions, e.g. disbelief, denial, not being able to think clearly, being numb,
confused, moving in slow motion, freezing, and not able to perform simple tasks
such as dialing frequently called phone numbers. In the law enforcement group
(Group B), those who apprehended the killer of the officer some seven hours later
talked about being surprised at their being able to properly treat the killer.
In Group A, several talked about how difficult it was for them to get past the
disbelief that this young child had actually shot and killed a classmate, even
though they were looking at the girl’s body on the floor. This question
allowed some of the participants who had said little to identify their personal
reactions.
In Group A, the next question of “Where are you experiencing this the most
in your body?” further helped to build a “shared connectedness” among
participants, as each could easily relate their physical response to all that
happened; many had similar reactions. Those unable to identify earlier reactions
could relate to the physical reactions they were experiencing, which helped develop
that “connectedness” with other members. The result was the same
in the law enforcement group.
Time
Group A was completed in two hours while Group B ran an hour and a half. After
a break, officers at the scene and the dispatchers returned for additional debriefing
of the details and personal reactions which they did not wish to talk about in
the larger group. This was very beneficial for those most exposed individuals.
The most exposed members in the education group did not want to return. The offer
was again made one week later with no reply. This was unfortunate, as we have
found that, among the most exposed, many do need the smaller, more personal and
thorough debriefing.
Summary
Two different groups using the same approach shared similar reactions, but also
unique reactions. The law enforcement group was more a “family” than
the education group which was comprised of different school district team members,
county team members, and school personnel. Those most exposed in the law enforcement
group were more open to additional debriefing; this was not the case with the
education group members. The law enforcement group was one operating system,
whereas, the education group were multiple systems which may have been more effectively
helped if allowed to debrief separately. Despite the issues that prohibited a
formal debriefing, the majority of members from both groups did express that
the process was helpful.
Situations will continue that will not allow a formal debriefing to be conducted;
yet some education and processing for survivors is still very helpful. Even though
each situation will be unique structure remains important. The fact that debriefers
went into each of these situations with predetermined questions and a structured
opening was calming for the participants as well as the debriefers.
Ms. Trimble wrote after her debriefing, “It would have been a disaster
had we not altered the ‘debriefing’ format and predetermined the
questions we were going to ask. In order to minimize their anxiety and enhance
my credibility with these officers, I was introduced by an officer who had worked
with me in previous debriefings and acknowledged that my brother, a State Trooper,
was one of the team members. I felt that it was critical, in my opening statements,
to assure the participants that this was a structured and controlled procedure.
The positive feedback we received following the session reinforced the vital
importance of the debriefing.
“I continue to be amazed at how this process helps the participants relax
and ‘give in’ to the grief and trauma. As they tell their stories,
you can see the body language change as the process takes over. The healing has
begun. What a rewarding feeling.”
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